It is amazing how focused she can be when properly motivated. Without prompting, she got dressed, fixed and ate her breakfast and was ready to leave 10 minutes before our scheduled departure. As we walked out the door for our adventure we were greeted by cool dry air which I found refreshing and stimulating. Chey, with her skinny little body, pushed her hands down into the pocket of her hoodie and trudged forward as though this was the frozen tundra.
Midway down the street she pauses to say, "This is your idea of a good morning to walk to school?" I gave her the chance to ride in comfort, but there was no turning back now. She was committed.
Around the corner and down the street, I asked her if things looked different walking rather than riding in the car. At first she couldn't tell any difference then she excitedly said, "Look, Mimi!" I followed her gaze and saw a mother duck with six baby ducklings walking across the front yard of the house across the street. We paused for a moment to just watch the momma and her babies. It was such a sweet sight. I told her that we probably wouldn't have seen them if we had been in the car - so it WAS a good day to walk to school.
She thought I was going to let her walk the rest of the way to school alone, but like the momma duck I had to make sure she was safe, so we continued to the end of this long street. At the last corner I let her go. Once she turned the corner and walked a few feet she was on school property and I felt safe to let her feel like a big kid.
She is ready to be grown up and I am hanging on to each moment because before I know it, she will be grown up and gone. I am learning to walk slowly through the days of my life, savoring my sweet grandbabies as long as I can. These are the moments that make our tight living arrangements worth the sacrifice. So, I came home, took an Aleve, drank a cup of coffee and enjoyed the quiet.
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